How To Pick Up Ladies - Confusing Indications And Flirting


When we are talking about the matter of "picking up women." I often get asked what to do to be able to "pick up women", or simply "how to pick up women".

I recently got asked the doubt: "Why do women flirt with you and when you flirt back they push it away? It's so misleading!!!" I thought it was interesting and valuable enough to share.

First of all, women have different qualities. What is being mentioned here is a type of personality, not all girls in general. The personality type that generally does this kind of behavior is a little shaky. They are testing the water, but they don't really want to leap in.

The best way to handle this personality type is when you find it is not to respond, not to take the bait so to speak. Let the girl flirt all she desires, let her take the lead. Let her handle how the relationship goes. If you don't react, she will feel at ease with you and steepen the gradient over time. If you react (flirt back) she will in most cases run away.

Difficulty is, however, people with equal or compatible personalities tend to hang out together. So at times you can get the opinion that the whole world is one way, when in fact it may be just a certain percentage of people who are like that. So if you generally think ALL women are one way, change your environment. Go to some other place, meet different people in different environments and perhaps you will discover different personality types and probably one that is more appropriate for you.

Now having said that, let's look at it from a different perspective. Women in general like flirting for flirting's sake more than guys do. Men will flirt because they are interested in a woman. Girls will flirt to see if they get a response, to see if they are looking good and are impressive, even when they are not fascinated with a man. They will flirt with a guy they are only keen on being friends with.

One way to get better grip of these situations is to observe all the communication mediums that a woman is using to communicate - Like by word of mouth, emotional, physical, psychological, and sexual communications.

When a woman likes you she probably will communicate that she likes you across all of the communications means. When she is just playing around she will give you mixed communications. So when you find a woman flirting with you, but she does not back up the flirting by showing you she likes you through ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation serious.

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